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cultural customs & traditions by country
African:
You may have heard of "jumping the broom".
It is a tradition whose origin is debated, but whose
significance is agreed upon to be a symbol for the start of the
couple making a home together. Cowrie shells can be used to
accent table decorations. The shells represent purity and
beauty.
Armenian:
A saying that is regarded as a cultural
tradition, "may you grow old on one pillow", can be woven into a
theme for the wedding. Print the phrase on invitations, or
engrave on a silver keepsake as a guest favor.
Chinese:
Perform a traditional tea ceremony where the
bride serves tea to her parents, and her new in-laws as a symbol
of respect. To update the tradition, the groom can serve tea
with his new bride. The color red represents celebration and
prosperity, and the Chinese character "xi" or double happiness
bestows the wish of a happy life for the couple. Chinese
weddings are festive celebrations in the full capacity of the
word. The bride and groom are required by etiquette to make the
rounds and toast each table individually to the loud cheers of
the group visited. Sometimes members of the wedding party can be
called upon to drink in place of the bride and groom in the
event either party cannot hold his or her liquor.
Czech
Republican: Traditionally the
bridesmaids make a wreath of rosemary for the bride to wear. An
updated version can be made with roses and baby's breath.
Dutch:
A wonderful custom is to create a wedding
"wish tree". At the reception a beautiful tree branch is placed
next to the bride and groom's table, and paper leaves attached
to pieces of colorful ribbon are placed at each guest's place
setting. Guests write their special wish for the happy couple on
their leaves, which the bride and groom can then read and hang
on the tree.
French:
The groom customarily walks his mother down the aisle before
arriving at the alter to be married. This is a lovely gesture
that can be easily adopted and will surely elicit a collective "aww"
from the audience.
German:
Breaking dishes, pots, or anything that will break into pieces
and then cleaning it up together is said to bring good luck to
the bride and groom just before the wedding. In fact another
version of the popular custom is for friends to bring over all
matter of junk they can gather for the couple to clean up. The
idea is to prepare the bride and groom for facing life's trials
together. It's a somewhat harsh custom, but one that is rich
with meaning nonetheless.
Greek:
In the Greek tradition, the bride and groom are honored as queen
and king for the day, and so are bestowed, usually by the best
man, crowns of gold, or orange blossoms.
Indian:
Indian weddings are traditionally multi-day affairs, and involve
many intricate ceremonies, such as the painting of the hands and
feet of the bride called a mehndi. Garlands are presented to
guests of honor instead of corsages, and lots and lots of flower
petals are thrown for good luck. It is tradition for the closest
male relative to sprinkle flower petals on the married couple to
fend off evil spirits.
Irish:
The traditional wedding ring is called a claddagh, and depicts
two hands holding a heart bearing a crown. The hands represent
faith, the heart love, and the crown honor. Another accessory
for the bride is a lucky horseshoe. Tie one with ribbon around
her bouquet for that walk down the aisle. But make sure to hang
it with the points up, it is said to catch and hold all the good
luck. A popular Celtic design is the love knot. It is a pattern
created by using continuous, unending lines that intertwine. The
design represents eternity, unity, and fidelity. A lucky four
leaf clover can symbolize, “One leaf for Hope, the second for
Faith, the third for Love, and the fourth for Luck!” Include
mini pots of shamrock for décor (don’t last long after they’re
cut). The national symbol of Ireland is the heraldic harp since
ancient Ireland honored the harpist above all other musicians,
and it was they who played for the highest officials. Another
tradition in Ireland is, instead of clinking glasses to get the
couple to kiss, a guest would stand up and sing a song, or
recite a poem with the word “love” in it.
Italian:
One of the oldest traditions is the giving of candy-coated
almonds. Meant to represent the bittersweet nature of marriage,
these treats are given to guests wrapped in tulle, or pretty
pouches, and in quantities of 5, which is a lucky number.
Japanese:
The Japanese ritual of "san-san-ku", or three by three exchange
is rich with meaning. It is performed by the bride and groom;
each takes 3 sips of sake from each of 3 cups. The first 3
represent three couples, the bride and groom, and their parents.
The second 3 represent three human flaws: hatred, passion, and
ignorance. "Ku", or 9 is a lucky number in Japanese culture. And
"do" means deliverance from the three flaws.
Korean:
Ducks and geese are animals known to mate for life. In Korean
culture this makes them the perfect symbols of fidelity and are
incorporated into weddings.
Mexican/Philippino/Spanish:
In Latin culture the grandmothers and grandpas will party just
as hard as the young folks they often get the party of the
reception going by being the first to boogie on down the dance
floor. The groom gives his bride a gift of 13 coins, or arras,
representing Jesus and his 13 apostles. These are blessed by the
priest and bear the groom's promise to care for and support his
wife. For the reception, a festive mariachi band would bring an
abundance of fun to the party.
Hawaiian
Scottish: The unmistakable sound of bagpipes will
surely evoke the pride of Scotland. Incorporate them into the
procession. Traditionally, the groom adorns his bride with a
sash in the colors of his clan to welcome her to his family.
People in
Hawaii are Swedish to: An traditional aspect, and
wonderful Swedish custom is for the bride to place some money in
her shoe. One silver coin in her left show from her father, and
one gold coin in her right from her mother to ensure that she
will never go without.
Vietnamese
are are a large class of people in the Hawaiian community:
It is customary for the mother-in-law to bestow upon the bride
pink chalk, which symbolizes a rosy future for the couple.
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